364 days

It is rainy day outside. I am staying at home drinking hot tea and I am thinking about the upcoming Christmas holidays . This is the only holiday that makes me sad. Every Christmas I get the same thought that stings my mind like a million angry bees. Why this holiday makes people so good? Why we are able to be so loving and caring only one day of the year? And why the other 364 days we are busy only with ourselves?  Well maybe I am mad but for this Christmas I will make a wish. I wish 364 days of Christmas and only one day that we could spend like a selfish egoists.

Love illusions

How many unsuccessful relationships do you have? Have you asked yourself why they always end up the same way? I have! And I found out that in my head there are plenty of idealistic  images of love. And then I started asking myself where did they get from? And then it  struck me ….every day we are  flooded with images of the perfect love. The perfect eternal love is everywhere. When we were children we listened to fairy-tales which always ended up the same way “they lived happily ever after” Now when we are grown ups we see this perfect couples on the TV, in the books or somewhere else. And all this forms our view of love and the desired partner. We want the perfect love, the perfect prince. But think about that… what happens after that “happily ever after”. Maybe the prince and the princess decided to get divorce ?!? No one knows . The story stops in their state of perfection. The true love isn’t perfect. In fact sometimes it can get ugly and painful. True love is to know your partner’s demons and love him despite them. True , real love is imperfect, but isn’t that challenging?

The new mental disorder

It is well know that in the 21^st century  we are threatened by all kinds of diseases. We are constantly afraid of getting sick. Well guess what? You are already sick. And you diagnose is pathological consumer. Yes my friend the symptoms are simple: you buy things all the time, you buy things that you don’t even need, and the more you buy the more you want. This disease is caused by a few viruses that combine to create the full clinical picture of the disorder. One of them are the producers of useless goods, but without the advertisements they are not able to make you sick. Today the advertisements are everywhere and slowly they are damaging your brain by promising you success, happiness and even love. They force you to buy their products. They transform you into a zombie with a credit card without you even notice. And if you don’t take the necessary  measure you will lose your personality and one day you will die like a consumer not like happy human being. So my friend it is up to you to find a cure for yourself. I will end this wiht one quote “If I am what I have and if I lose what I have who then am I?”. We are not the thing we buy.  We were, we are and we will always be more than this.